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Saturday, May 26, 2012

Live After the Manner of Happiness


2 Nephi 5

Nephi gathers those who want to live righteously and they travel several days away from those who do not want to keep the commandments of the Lord and are causing them grief.  Thus begins the Nephites and the Lamanites.

Once they reached the place where they were going to call home (and they called it the land of Nephi), they began to live “after the manner of happiness”.  What is it to live like that?  In verses 15-18 it defines it as an industrious people who worked with the tools they were given, i.e. wood, iron, copper, brass, steel, gold, silver, etc.  They built a temple, so obviously they “worked” at worshipping there.  They labored with their hands; in v14 they made weapons of defense.  They did not have a king (v18).   They grew their food (v11).   

I found this all very interesting this morning because of a friend of mine who is an excellent example of living after the manner of happiness.  She is a young widow and lost one of her daughters 10 days within the date of her husband’s death.  This is a situation that could take a lot of people down.  I have noticed she lives after the manner of happiness.  She showed me her garden the other night.  It is beautiful, big and will feed an army and it keeps her busy.  She works as an ordinance worker in the temple weekly as well as attends regularly.  She is a substitute teacher and is very involved in her church calling.  She is busy. 

Conversely, I see a young woman who is about as miserable as anyone I have ever known.  Happiness seems to elude her.  She is single and can’t seem to find a relationship that works for her.  She has no hobbies or outside interests.  Her main focus is exercise.  Well, you can’t do that all day long.  She is self-serving and talks of little else but herself, her woes, her accomplishments, her loneliness, and when you are with her, you just listen.  She is not living after the manner of happiness and she is definitely NOT happy.

Yes, this chapter is a handbook for living after the manner of happiness.

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