A Home Transformed by Priesthood

No man who holds the Holy Priesthood should treat his wife disrespectfully. No man who holds that priesthood should fail to ask a blessing on his food or kneel with his wife and children to seek God’s guidance. A home is transformed when a man both holds and honors the priesthood.

Compulsion builds resentment. It conveys mistrust and makes people feel incompetent.

These verses in Doctrine and Covenants 121 spoke to me deeply during my study this morning.

They stood out because of a recent ministering moment with one of my sisters. I don’t like hearing other people’s troubles—it’s a burden that isn’t mine to carry. Yet we have a neighbor and ward member who has been spreading hurtful things about his wife. They’re in the midst of a divorce, and though I know both of them, I also know there are rarely completely innocent parties when a marriage breaks apart.

I’m not in a position to judge—and I don’t. But I find myself wondering: how does a priesthood holder who once honored his covenants get to this point? Is it a slow, slippery slope? Years of quiet resentment over choices made long ago? A need to justify his behavior? Or perhaps she, too, feels wounded—hurt by self-righteousness or the misuse of priesthood authority?

Who can say what’s truly causing the divide? All I know is that a covenant marriage is falling apart—and it’s heartbreaking.

Why can’t we see that when we reach this stage of life—children raised, responsibilities lighter—there’s so much joy to be found? This season is the golden ticket! To spend it searching elsewhere for happiness is a grave mistake.

The peace we crave doesn’t come from escaping covenants but from keeping them. When we honor our promises—to God and to each other—we discover the joy we were searching for all along.

 

The Ministering Influence of the Holy Ghost

President Gordon B. Hinckley once taught, “How great a blessing it is to have the ministering influence of a member of the Godhead.”

He continues: Think of what that really means — the ability and the right to receive the ministrations of a member of the Godhead, to commune with infinite wisdom, infinite knowledge, and infinite power!

This morning, as I read that quote in my ScripturePlus study of Doctrine and Covenants 121, I had a flash of thought I’ve been trying to put into words.

This past Sunday was an absolute thrill for me. I was visiting Chase’s family for Summer’s baptism. Summer gave a talk in Primary, and of course I was there for that — but I also wanted to stay and watch Chelsae during Singing Time (which, by the way, was wonderful!). Clyde stayed with me.

As we started to head to classes, the Primary president stopped to talk with Chelsae, looking a bit concerned. She had just realized the 9-year-old class didn’t have a teacher. Now what?

(A little background: this ward was created just three weeks ago with brand-new boundaries. Some members came from one ward, some from another — and the mix is still finding its footing.)

Anyway, Chelsae turned to Clyde and me and said, “I’ll bet Chase’s parents would love to help out.”

She was right — I could not have been happier about that suggestion! The lesson was from Come, Follow Me the previous week, and I’d already studied it with Clyde and on my own.

There were eight children in the class — bright, thoughtful, full of faith — and the conversation we shared was marvelous. I felt the Holy Ghost there in that little room as clearly as I’ve ever known Him. It was distinct, powerful, unmistakable.

I’ve skied breathtaking, snow-covered mountains, water-skied pristine lakes, and even gone scuba diving and zip-lining across the world. Those experiences are exhilarating, but when they’re over, they’re just fond memories. When your soul is touched by the Holy Ghost, though, the feeling lingers. It fills you for days and becomes a place you can return to whenever you need a “booster shot” of the Spirit.

These are sacred moments for me — gifts I don’t take lightly.

Heavenly Father is real. I know He hears our prayers. I’ve been praying lately for opportunities to share my testimony with someone. I don’t believe this experience on Sunday was serendipitous. It felt like a direct answer to those very prayers. 

3 Nephi 11 — Pondering That Day

I find myself thinking often about this future day — the day when the Savior comes again. What will it be like? 3 Nephi 11 gives such a vivid picture that I can almost place myself there.

 

First, the people heard a voice — soft, not quite knowing where it came from. I can see myself doing the same thing, looking around, wondering. That’s so me.

 

Second, their hearts began to burn. That one feels familiar. That’s how the Holy Ghost speaks to me — not loud, just quietly certain.

 

Third, they looked toward heaven. Isn’t that instinctive? When we hear something we can’t explain, we look up. I would too.

 

Fourth, the Father’s voice said, “Jesus is the Light and Life of the world.” I love that so much. A young man in our ward who is autistic once said it means everything in this world was made by Him. Jesus gives us light. He gives us life.

 

Fifth, the people remembered hearing about Him. That won’t be hard for me. I already think of Him constantly. He is my Light. He is my Life.

 

Sixth, they were invited to come — to touch and feel. I’ve thought a lot about this part. Would I go forward? Would I reach out to touch the wounds in His hands and feet? That’s a little out of character for me. My eyes can believe easily enough, but He wanted them to feel for themselves. Maybe that’s why — so their witness would be solid and unshakable.

 

Seventh, Nephi was given power to baptize, and then shared that authority with others. I hadn’t really noticed that before. There was work to be done — just like there will be when He comes again.

 

Will His coming follow a similar pattern? I think it might. We’ve been told to prepare. For me, that means knowing the scriptures well enough to share them with others, staying true to my covenants, and going to the temple often to rememberthose promises. It means bearing witness of Jesus whenever I can and being a light to others.

 

If I can do those things — even in small ways — maybe I’ll be ready when our Savior comes again.

 

 

 

 

A Sure Witness

Elder Kevin G. Brown of the Seventy gave a stirring talk in October 2025. My notes:

He shared three truths that guided him on his journey to a sure witness.

Question for me: How does my own testimony line up with his three truths?

His three truths:

1. God is our loving Heavenly Father.

2. Agency is the gift to choose and act for ourselves—and the responsibility to choose well.

3. Our testimony comes through the power of the Holy Ghost. A testimony isn’t given for temporary use; it’s eternal. No expiration date.

He was very emotional! What greater witness can we have than one that comes from God Himself?

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My Experience

When my missionary friends began telling me about Jesus Christ and His Atonement for me personally, something inside me shifted. Had I been asleep all that time? I can’t explain why I hadn’t understood the magnitude of this gift sooner. Heavenly Father truly loved me. He forgave me and provided a Savior—His Only Begotten Son, Jesus Christ—who atoned for my sins. I was free to move forward with my life. That realization was liberating.

I made the choice to change, and I changed everything. The hardest part was making that initial choice. Once I decided I was done being foolish, the Lord placed people in my path to help me. He sustained me and guided me. My agency became aligned with His will.

My testimony was confirmed by the Holy Ghost the Sunday before I received my endowment in the Salt Lake Temple. During Fast and Testimony meeting, I stood and bore my testimony—and a feeling I had never experienced before washed over me. It was like a warm, living current flowing through my chest, bringing me to tears. I’ve had similar moments since, but none as powerful as that day.

That was when I knew the Gospel of Jesus Christ was true—and I knew that Heavenly Father knew I knew. I have never looked back.

3 Nephi 7 — Thoughts and Testimony on 3 Nephi 7

I’ve been studying 3 Nephi 7, and I keep coming back to this thought: how could anyone be angry at a prophet who had the power to raise someone from the dead? I can’t wrap my mind around that. If anything, that kind of miracle would pull me closer to God, not drive me away. It would have been enough at any time in my life to stir me back into the fold.

Verse 22 really stopped me this time:

“Those who had devils cast out from them, and were healed of their sicknesses and their infirmities, did truly manifest unto the people that they had been wrought upon by the Spirit of God, and had been healed; and they did show forth signs also and did do miracles among the people.”

I’ve read that verse before, but today it felt new—almost alive. Those who had been healed didn’t just go home and keep quiet; they went out and performed miracles themselves. That realization touched me deeply. The power of God doesn’t stop with the prophet—it moves through the people who believe, who have been changed, who have felt His Spirit heal them.

If our time really does parallel theirs, then miracles are happening all around us. I believe that. Our prophets and apostles are performing miracles—maybe not always the kind that make headlines, but quiet, sacred ones that change lives. President H. Oaks, President Henry B. Eyring, and President D. Todd Christofferson, our newly sustained Prophet and First Presidency, carry that same charge to preach repentance and draw people back to Christ. I know there are miracles surrounding their ministry, even if we don’t always hear about them.

We live in such a remarkable time. With technology, we can see the world almost instantly. We can watch faith grow in places far away. Yet sometimes I wonder if we’ve become so used to seeing everything that some forget to really see the hand of God in anything. In my own family, I see both sides—some who recognize His power and grow stronger in their faith, and others who turn away, almost unwilling to see. That’s hard to watch as a parent.

But I hold onto hope. I bear quiet witness of the power of God, even if it’s not always spoken out loud. I write so my children, grandchildren, and those who come after me will know that I believed—that I know the gospel of Jesus Christ is true. He really is the One who sets us free, who gives us life again, and who still performs miracles today through those who love Him. 

3 Nephi - Sobering Parallels

Do I really want to start writing here again? Maybe so. My blog still feels like the only safe place to voice what’s on my mind. These are my notes from today’s study of 3 Nephi — and honestly, it’s a sobering one.

This chapter feels eerily familiar, as though it’s speaking directly to our day — the year 2025! Are we ready for the next chapters? The text mentions “the 30th year since Christ’s birth,” and many prophets have said these timelines mirror our own. [Gulp.] Could we really be that close to the Second Coming?

Look around. The truly wicked often walk free after committing terrible crimes. Illegal immigrants are given rights, finances, and privileges that many citizens struggle to obtain. This one especially troubles me — so many who have come to the U.S. legally have waited years, even decades, for the same opportunities. It just feels wrong.  So how do we respond to it all?

Here’s the question that hit me: If we fight against the growing chaos and try to bring peace, are we slowing the Lord’s timetable? If the world became peaceful again, would that delay the Savior’s return?

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God’s Rules to Peace

Here’s what stood out to me in this chapter — a divine checklist of how to stay grounded when everything else falls apart:

• Humble
• Firm
• Penitent
• Steadfast
• Immovable
• Diligently willing to keep the commandments of the Lord

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3 Nephi 6:14

And thus there became a great inequality in all the land, insomuch that the church began to be broken up; yea, insomuch that in the thirtieth year the church was broken up in all the land save it were among a few of the Lamanites who were converted unto the true faith; and they would not depart from it, for they were firm, and steadfast, and immovable, willing with all diligence to keep the commandments of the Lord.

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Satan’s Tools

Every tool listed here is visible in today’s world:

• Pride
• Power
• Authority
• Riches
• Vain things of the world
• Willfully rebelling against God

And just like in Nephi’s day:

• The people combined against the Lord, entering into a covenant to destroy those who sought justice.
• They defied the law and the rights of their country.
• They plotted to destroy the governor and install a king over the land.
• Their goal was to take away liberty and bring the people under control.

Food for thought. I’ll be chewing on this one today.

 

Parable of the Dirty Windows

Saturday morning, as I was reading my scriptures at the kitchen table, I was quite distracted at the beauty of the mountains and view between them and my kitchen table. I just sat and looked at them for a while and then continued reading. It wasn’t long and the sun started to be serious about coming over the mountain. At first, it was a sliver. It didn’t take long for my beautiful view to be totally obstructed. My windows have taken a serious hit this spring as we’ve experienced an unusually wet spring. The lilac bushes that were stunning earlier could barely be seen. What is that all about, I thought? I pondered that thought for more than a few minutes. The dirt on the windows had diminished the gorgeous view to the outside that mere minutes earlier had captivated me. Was it the light? When light shines, it is brighter than darkness. We know that. But why would the light diminish the view? 

I was content to move on, but as we listened to Camille Fronk Olson on Follow Him, she called out a scripture that was quite meaningful to this subject. John 3:19-21 .  .  .   light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. 21. But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.

Somehow this brought a deeper focus onto my morning epiphany. When we are living in darkness, we don’t see the light. We like the dark and don’t even have the thought to seek the light. I can say ‘amen!’ to that because I’ve been there. It isn’t until the light shines and we give ourselves a chance to soak it up that we appreciate the light and don’t want the dark. I won’t deny that the lilacs were beautiful before the light crested over the mountain. However, they were brilliant after the sun brought the light, and quite frankly, I was ready to go wash my windows. LOL